Juggling life through a bi-polar lens. Sometimes up, sometimes down. Mostly trying to tread water in the middle. Creating a likeness to a normal life. Whatever "normal" is...

Tuesday 8 November 2011

Birthday

It's extrememly hard to have a happy birthday when those around you are so intent on being bloody miserable and bad tempered.

Sod them!

I had a lovely E-card from Feronia that really cheered me!
I had a nice 'birthday lunch' with Caroline, an old school friend, in September.
Then I met up last month with Andrea and Beanie in London. We had a nice 'birthday lunch'  and went shopping at a great art shop.
My little nephews have sent me a funny card, which made me smile.....

I was going out for a meal with Luvbug tonight but I've told him not to bother booking anything. What's the point?

To be happy when all around you is misery and grump and criticism is very tiring. Stuff it. I'll have a long hot bath full of bubbles, a good book, and a sip of brandy. Then a nap on my own. And later, some time with Scooter. I didn't think he would still me with me today, I really didn't think he'd make it. He is my best birthday present of all and I love him.

Here he is this morning, helping me open some presents. He loves the sound of sitting on wrapping paper!

10 comments:

Leenie said...

Happy Birthday, dear Helena .. I'm very glad you and Scooter are celebrating your togetherness. Love and hugs and all good wishes!

Julie said...

Happy Birthday Helena, I missed it again tsk! I hope you enjoyed your soak and I'm glad you could share your birthday with Scooter
:-) xx♥xx

mrsnesbitt said...

Oh H, missed it!
So sorry you were **ssed off by those around you hun ((((((HUGS))))))
You have my number hun - call me for a chat anytime - xxxx

Feronia said...

Happy Birthday Helena - sounds like you made a lovely day for yourself despite the moods of others - good on you! Hugs x

Angel, Kirby and Max said...

Happy Birthday Helena. We are glad Scooter seems to be doing better!

Dragonstar said...

Oh Helena, I missed your birthday! Scooter looks lovely - a great present for you.

Beanie Mouse said...

As you say, stuff the miserable beggers. Happy birthday, and it WAS a rather fabbie burger we had in London, wasn't it?!?!

Sandy Kessler said...

Celebrating life - glorious Sandy

Leenie said...

It was nice to see Scooter having fun with the wrapping paper over on Bob's blog! Hugs to you, Helena.

Di said...

Oh no, I missed your birthday too Helena! Scoot certainly looks great in the photo and, as you say, the best birthday present of all! Love, Di xx